A Lighthouse Welcome
Tuesday, Dec. 16, 2025
5 pm onwards
Attire: Smart Casual
The Wedding
Eterna Delaro
Thursday, Dec. 18, 2025
4 pm onwards
Attire: Formal
Our Greatful Send-off
Friday, Dec. 19, 2025
12 noon onwards
Attire: Casual
Join us for a warm and relaxed start to the celebrations, with time to mingle, enjoy Sri Lankan-inspired cocktails, savour delicious bites, and take in touches of traditional dance. It’s a chance for everyone to unwind, chitchat, and feel truly welcomed as we begin this beautiful journey together.
Experience the magic of our beachfront Poruwa ceremony, followed by a joyful reception in the hall filled with laughter, cheering, heartfelt toasts, and the unforgettable warmth of shared celebration. As the evening unfolds, we’ll dine, raise our glasses, and dance the night away with the people we love most.
After a beautiful and joy-filled day of celebrations, we warmly welcome you to our home for a simple gathering. With the biggest thanks from the bottom of our hearts, let’s share some food, exchange memories, and say our goodbyes before we wrap up this unforgettable journey together.
a note on GIFTS
Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for. However, if you wish to bless us with a gift, we would be grateful for your contribution to our dream honeymoon. It would mean so much to us as we embark on this exciting new chapter together.
Thank you for your thoughtfulness and generosity!
Our Love Story
Although we grew up in neighboring villages in Sri Lanka, our paths never crossedor at least not in any way we could remember. Life took us in different directions, each carving our own journey for over three decades. But fate, in its own mysterious way, eventually brought us together in the most unexpected of circumstances.
In 2022, Deshani received a job offer in the UK, an exciting but daunting move. Seeking guidance, her mother reached out to Roshendra’s mother for advice. Without hesitation, Roshendra stepped in to help, knowing firsthand how overwhelming it could be to start a new life in a different country. What began as a simple act of kindness soon turned into something more. Our conversations, once centered around logistics and adjustments, soon became effortless exchanges filled with laughter, late-night calls, and shared dreams. Our bond grew stronger with each passing day, blossoming into a love we hadn’t anticipated but deeply cherished.
A year into our relationship, life presented another twist. Roshendra was offered a two-year assignment in Japan with Nissan, an opportunity he couldn’t refuse. But even as he prepared for this new adventure, he knew one thing for certain: Deshani was the one he wanted to build a future with. Without hesitation, he set his heart on a plan, arranging the perfect proposal in just a few weeks.
On a crisp Parisian morning, as the golden sunrise bathed the Eiffel Tower in soft light, Roshendra led Deshani to the Trocadéro. The city was still waking up, the streets quieter than usual, allowing us a rare, intimate moment amidst one of the world’s most romantic settings. As Deshani took in the breathtaking view, Roshendra took a deep breath, got down on one knee, and asked Deshani to marry him.
For a moment, time seemed to stand still. The early morning air carried the soft hum of the city, and the twinkling lights of the tower slowly faded with the rising sun. Overwhelmed with emotion, Deshani said yes, her heart full of joy.
In that perfect moment, in the heart of Paris, we sealed a promise, a promise of love, adventure, and a lifetime together.
One year after the proposal, we decided to put pen on paper and seal the deal!
The Destination
By Car
Drive 1.5 to 2 hours from Colombo
Drive 2.5 to 3 hours from Bandaranaike International Airport (BIA):
By Flight
We recommend flying into Bandaranaike International Airport (BIA)
Plan Your Visit
We've partnered with Cinnamon Hotels & Resorts and Walkers Tours to assist with planning your stay.
Travel Guide
A sneak peak into Sri Lanka's most beautiful locations.
Dress Code - Formal
We kindly request formal attire to set an elegant tone for the evening.
However, we invite you to embrace the local wedding culture by experimenting with a saree or a sarong. It’s a wonderful opportunity to immerse yourself in the atmosphere and make your experience even more memorable. We look forward to seeing your choice!